Gesina was a bit fussy today but took 32 ml when I nursed her and seemed content afterwards. After they tube fed her the rest I was cuddling her and she threw it all up on me. I have officially been initiated into motherhood! The nurse and I gave her a bath and she loved it. I had to leave soon after but she was awake and alert the whole time I was there. She did sneeze 12 times in the time I was there (yup, I counted) so I'm hoping she isn't getting a cold. The nurse used a sucker thing on her nose and didn't get any phlegm so we're hopeful but adding her fussiness to the mix makes me worry. They have made the NICU a parents only zone on Thursday due to the cold and flu season (sorry everyone who likes to visit!). I do know there was a baby who had a cold in my pod but was moved out a few days ago. I REALLY hope Gesina doesn't get her cold but I guess it is inevitable that she will get a cold eventually.
I did mention the feeding more often and smaller amounts idea to one of the nurses. She said she wondered if the doctors would let her feed on demand but then did the math and mentioned that Gesina wouldn't get the full amount at the rate she's feeding. I'll bring it up tomorrow to another nurse until I get one of them to ask the doctors. Of course, tomorrow I could also ask one of the doctors myself! She is getting much better with a pacifier too so I think she's getting closer to feeding the way they want her too. The next time they put a feeding tube in I may do it (gulp!). But by doing it on my own, I'm that much closer to convincing them she can come home.
I agree about the feeding issue, most newborns only want to be fed every 2-3 hours. And she is gaining weight quite fast so I am wondering if they basically are force feeding her more than she really needs. But like you said, the doctors are supposed to know what to do. You have my sympathy in this since you have no control at the moment. Hopefully she will be allowed to come home soon so you can adjust to what is best for her. Keep up the good work! I see a happy homecoming in the near future for Gesina:)
ReplyDeleteI wondered that too Diane...not all babies take the same amounts...I know they have to do what they "think" is best, but...isn't that kinda the point of smaller more frequent feedings? That they get what they need on demand and not over feed????
ReplyDeleteI hope she is able to be home soon. I think it will help you both in so many ways.
You'll be able to do things your own way...that will help. I think she'll be calmer and more relaxed too:)
Jot down your questions and concerns, it's easier to not forget something that way:) You're closer everyday, we're so excited for ya'll!
Wait a minute...she feeds every 5 hours, approx 500 ml, right? So...40-60 ml, every 2-3 hours....400-600 ml...in 24 hours, right? Still, pretty close, I'd ask, what can it hurt?
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